Summary: Yesterday morning's sermon was mostly about how the secret things belong to God, and the revealed things belong to us and our children.  Whom you should marry?  That's a secret thing.  It belongs to God until you're married.  It's like the answer I sometimes give when someone asks me how to know if they've found "the one."  Ans: "when you marry them, they're the one--until death do you part."   But there are revealed things, and among them are the characteristics we should look for in a prospective spouse.  Of our planned list of 5 we got to #1--kindness.